BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

Join Selfish 30, Margarita’s 30-day challenge starting November 1stWelcome back to Being Her, where we are officially entering our selfish era. After years of talking about how to get over an ex, move from anxious to secure attachment, and create the life you want, Margarita has realised the answer to all of it is the same: become a little bit more selfish. Not selfish as in taking from others, but deliciously selfish, putting yourself at the centre of your own life and owning it. In this episode, Margarita explains why “decentring men” keeps you thinking about men, why being the good girl hasn’t made you happier or more valued, and how guilt conditioning keeps women convenient instead of unforgettable. She gets candid about her own people-pleasing, finally buying herself caviar, and the difference between being needed and being valued. She also reveals Selfish 30, her brand new 30-day challenge to help you stop delegating your life to others and actually start doing the behaviours of a woman who puts…

This week’s episode comes straight from the DMs: “Can you please make a video about your partner sleeping soundly while you are crying next to him?” It’s a message Margarita gets often, and one she lived herself in her twenties. The internet’s answer is usually just “leave him,” but Margarita argues that skips the most important part: understanding what is actually happening. In this episode, she breaks down the pursue-withdraw dynamic, why men and women experience conflict so differently, and how anxious and avoidant partners are both trying to feel safe in opposite ways. She gets candid about emotional sovereignty, rumination, and handing your emotional weather to someone else. She also explains how to tell a healthy break from stonewalling, emotional overwhelm from emotional punishment, and the one simple test that shows whether it really is time to leave him.In this episode: 1. Three separate reasons this could be happening and they are all different 2. The pursue withdraw dynamic and why it is so…

Episode mentioned: The Bossticks with Margarita NazarenkoPeep the comments on the IG Reel that sparked this conversation Books mentioned:Unbothered by Margarita NazarenkoThe New Rules by Margarita NazarenkoTo learn more about Margarita Nazarenko, visit https://www.margaritanazarenko.comWelcome back to Being Her, where today it’s getting juicy, spicy and real life. Margarita is launching her new Substack, Unfiltered with Margarita, and using a viral moment from her recent appearance on The Bossticks to unpack why so many women feel burnt out, frazzled and in constant conflict with the people they love. When a clip about her husband forgetting the diapers in Las Vegas blew up online, the comment section revealed something bigger: women are carrying loads that were never theirs to carry. In this episode, Margarita breaks down the psychology of over-functioning, the difference between caring and controlling, and why stepping back and letting natural consequences play out can transform your relationships. She…

Join me in The Final Round of Unbothered WomanReceive emails from meYou already know what you need to do. You are just scared of what it is going to cost you.Margarita is back from her book tour in America, freshly moved into a half renovated house with two small children, and she has things to say.In this episode she shares the 10 mindset shifts that came up for her on the trip, the permissions she had to stop waiting for, and why the life you want is already inside you and has been the whole time.In this episode:1. You are probably not confused you are just scared of the consequences2. Stop collecting advice you already have the answer3. Distance tells you things proximity cannot4. Your next life requires disappointing someone from your current one5. Stop waiting to feel ready confidence only comes after evidence6. When you transform the old identity will fight back hard7. Stop making permanent decisions based on temporary emotions8. Your life changes when you stop negotiating with what you know9. There is…

Join me for the Final round of The Unbothered Woman Ever - We start October 2nd. She was a fashion editor at GQ and Allure. She built a fashion line that dressed every A list celebrity. Then covid shut it all down.And at 52 years old she started over. And built the biggest success of her entire career.In this episode Margarita sits down with Mary Alice Haney in Hollywood and has the conversation every woman in her thirties, forties and fifties needs to hear. About reinvention. About the why not me mentality. About what it actually costs to build something.We talk about how Mary went from fashion editor to founder to podcaster, why confidence is not something you wait for it is something you fake until it becomes real, what nobody tells you about balancing motherhood and ambition, why your biggest success might still be ahead of you, and why your age and your children are not the excuses you think they are.If you have ever thought you are too old, too busy, too far behind, or that the window has closed, this…

Check out Hinge Get my Book: Unbothered The Art of Letting Go to Find YourselfJoin the Unbothered WomanWatch Detach My 3 Day IntensiveIf there is one episode you listen to this year on anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, and why you can never fully relax in a relationship, let it be this one.Your gut is not a wise little oracle. It is a nervous system shaped by everything that has ever happened to you. And if most of your experiences with love have involved pain, your gut has been calibrated to a setting that does not serve you when you are finally safe.In this episode Margarita breaks down the real difference between anxiety and intuition, why trusting your gut is damaging advice for anxiously attached women, and what to do in the moment when you genuinely cannot tell which one is speaking.In this episode:Why anxiety and intuition feel exactly the same from the insideWhy trusting your gut is dangerous advice for anxious womenHow your nervous system scans for danger even when you are safeWhy reassurance…

View The Feminine Energy Collection HereJoin The Unbothered Woman HereIf you have been trying to step into your feminine energy but everything you have followed so far has felt like a performance, doing all the right things, not texting first, being soft, letting him lead, and still feeling the same anxiety underneath because nothing you were taught actually changed how you feel on the inside, this episode is for you.In this episode I break down why the mainstream version of feminine energy is keeping you stuck in a cycle of performing for an outcome instead of actually embodying who you are, the real definition of feminine energy that no one is talking about, and the specific practices that shift you from managing every outcome to being so anchored in yourself that you never lose her again.→ FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her.Every day for 30 days, you’ll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset→ Unbothered: The art of letting go → The New Rules BookBeing Her is your no filter space for…

Get your copy of Unbothered, now available in the USJoin the waitlist for Unbothered Woman Watch DetachCheck out HingeYou are not going to like this one. And if it makes you angry, that is probably a sign you need to hear it.In this episode Margarita breaks down five things women do completely unintentionally, usually with the best intentions, that quietly push men away. Not the obvious stuff every relationship coach has already told you. The things nobody is saying.In this episode:1. Narrating every internal state the second you feel it2. Mothering him and collapsing the polarity without realising it3. Making yourself too agreeable, too easy, too cool girl4. Manufacturing jealousy instead of actually building a full life5. Needing his validation vs valuing his opinionWhether you are in the talking stage, a long term relationship that has lost its spark, or a marriage that feels more like flatmates,one of these five is going to hit home.This is not about blame. It is about understanding why the dynamic…

Join Unbothered Woman WaitlistWatch Detach: My 3 Day Intensive MasterclassYou have been warm to everyone. And it has exhausted you.In this episode Margarita brings back an ancient Slavic wisdom she nearly lost to western society and makes the full case for yourice queen era. Not cold for the sake of it. Not emotionally shut down. Just deeply discerning about where your warmth actually goes.Because warmth given to everyone is worth nothing.And warmth given to the right people changes everything.In this episode:1. Warmth is valuable because it is limited2. Coldness gives you enough distance to see reality3. An ice queen does not react on impact4. Being colder means you stop explaining the verdict5. Stop mothering people who disappoint you6. You can love someone without giving them access7. Colder women are harder to manipulate8. Protected softness is intimacy, unprotected softness is self abandonment9. The cool girl and the ice queen are not the same thing10. The goal is not to be Elsa forever, it is to be…

Watch Detach: My 3 day intensive masterclass.They called you bossy. They called you demanding. They called you difficult.Good.In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being self led, why women are trained from childhood to outsource their own lives toother people's comfort, and why the burnout, brain fog and confusion so many women are feeling right now is coming from one place.You have stopped leading yourself.In this episode:1. Self led women know what they want and are not afraid to say it2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded3. Being self led is not controlling others it is running your own life4. Indecisiveness is one of the most expensive things you can do to yourself5. Confidence looks bossy when people are not used to it6. Women apologize before they even finish the thought7. The fear is not of being bossy it is the fear of rejection8. Every successful woman has been called bossy at some point9. Someone is always steering your life if it is not you10. What would you do…

Watch Detach, my 3 day intensive masterclass here.Every man's ex is crazy. Have you noticed that?In this episode Margarita reclaims the word crazy and breaks down why emotional sovereignty is one of the most powerful things a woman can develop, why the cool girl performance is slowly killing you, and why feeling your emotions deeply is not your weakness.It is your greatest asset.In this episode:1. Emotions are information not instructions to act2. Emotional independence means stopping expecting others to regulate you3. A regulated woman still cries and still gets angry4. Stop treating every feeling like an emergency5. Femininity is not emotional chaos it is leading your own emotions6. Learn the difference between intuition and activation7. Peace is not something a man gives you it is something you build8. Stop outsourcing your self worth9. Emotional maturity is the most attractive thing you can develop10. The goal is not crazy amounts of happiness it is stability and joyIf you have been called crazy for…

Watch Unbothered 3 Day Intensive Here You have been trying so hard to be easy. Easy going. Easy to love. No requirements. No fuss.And yet here you are.In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being high maintenance and why the women who know what they want, ask for it unapologetically, and refuse to shrink themselves are the ones who get everything.In this episode:1. High maintenance is just a person who knows themselves2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded3. Low maintenance often becomes emotional dishonesty4. How can a man meet the needs he does not know exist5. Stop confusing standards with entitlement6. The psychology of self silencing and why it kills relationships7. Your needs are not problems, they are preferences8. The fear of being high maintenance comes from a scarcity mindset9. The healthiest women are actually quite specific10. Stop trying to be easy to love because it does not existIf you have been making yourself small so people will like you more, pretending to…

UNBOTHERED 3 Day IntensiveThe more you do for him the more he will love you. That is what they told you. That is wrong.In this episode Margarita breaks down the psychology of why making yourself useful is actually costing you the love, respect and value you are trying to earn.T his one is going to change how you show up in every relationship in your life.In this episode:1. Women are taught that love is earned through usefulness2. The IKEA effect and why effort creates value3. Stop robbing men of the chance to contribute4. Useful is not memorable, it just fades into the background5. Being needed and being loved are not the same thing6. Every yes teaches people what to expect from you7. Difficulty creates investment, not manipulation8. Being low maintenance becomes self abandonment9. Make people earn access to you through standards not games10. Become unforgettable, not indispensableIf you do everything and still do not feel valued, if you have made yourself so convenient you have disappeared, or if you are…

Busy is not a badge of honour. It is a trap. And if you are reading this while doing three other things, this episode is specifically for you.In this episode, Margarita makes a full unapologetic case for laziness. Why the pressure on women to be endlessly productive is not ambition. It is performance. And it is running you into the ground.We talk about why your body is not a machine, why the 9 to 5 was literally built around male hormones and not yours, why productivity can become a sneaky way of avoiding yourself, and why the women who are actually winning are the ones who know when to stop.In this episode:Why a busy woman is not always a good womanWhy laziness and efficiency are a lot closer than you thinkWhy productivity can become a way of avoiding yourselfWhy your 28 day cycle means the 9 to 5 was never built for youWhy nature does not rush and neither should youWhy women carry two shifts and still get called lazyThe difference between performative busyness and productive ambitionWhy slower is not…

THE SELFISH RESET — Live Call with Margarita Aug 13 Join The Unbothered Woman.UNBOTHERED 3 Day MasterclassThey taught you that being mean would get you ostracised. They taught you that having boundaries made you difficult. They taught you that disappointing people made you a bad person.They were wrong.In this episode, Margarita breaks down why the fear of being called mean is keeping you stuck, small, and silently resentful and why direct, honest, boundaried women aren't mean at all.They're just no longer convenient.In this episode:1. Causing discomfort is not the same as causing harm2. Mean usually just means you're no longer convenient3. Niceness without limits becomes unpaid labour4. Nice girls use niceness to control how people see them5. Over explaining is fear dressed as communication6. Women who avoid being mean often become it anyway, through resentment7. Anger is not a flaw it's a service announcement8. Kindness without limits becomes slavery9. The difference between power and cruelty10. Freedom…

→ Join The Unbothered WomanTHE SELFISH RESET — Live Call with MargaritaThey told you vanity was shallow.They told you caring about how you look made you stupid.They told you self beautification was selfish and vain and bad.They were afraid of what would happen if you started liking yourself.In this episode, Margarita breaks down the truth about beauty, vanity and self adornment, why it's never been about men, why it's one of the most powerful things a woman can do, and why the women who invest in themselves get more of everything.In this episode:1. Everyone cares what they look like, drop the pretense2. Pretty privilege is real — use it strategically3. Looking good changes how you behave, and that changes everything4. The word bimbo was invented to keep you from investing in yourself5. Vanity is self investment and self sacrifice is not love6. Your appearance is your first communication7. If you're a mother, being vain is your duty8. Vanity and self hatred are completely different things9. To be desired, you…

Join the Unbothered WomanYour nice girl personality has got you this far. But it's also why you're exhausted, resentful, and running on empty.In this episode, Margarita breaks down why selfishness isn't a flaw it's the missing ingredient keeping you from the life you actually want.– Nice girls abandon themselves before anyone else can– The world rewards agreeable women until it doesn't– Selfless women become resentful — and it poisons everything– People don't respect women who don't respect themselves– Being needed is not the same as being loved– Stop auditioning — you already have the role– Selfish women ask for more and get more– Boundaries don't lose good people — they expose bad ones– Stop managing everyone else's emotions– Every successful woman disappoints someone– Selfish women actually give more — that's the paradox– Becoming your own favourite personIf you've ever felt like you give everything and still feel invisible, resentful but unable to explain why, or like your whole identity is built around…

Join the Unbothered WomanNot everyone in your life is going to like you. Your mother in law. Your colleagues. People online. And the harder you try to convince them otherwise, the worse it gets.In this episode, Margarita breaks down exactly what to do when you're surrounded by people who don't like you, are jealous of you, or quietly resent you and why trying to be "enough" for them will never work.In this episode:— Stop trying to convince people who've already decided who you are— Jealousy is usually not about you, it's about them— Not everyone deserves access to you— Never shrink yourself to make others comfortable— Success reveals people— The opposite of jealousy is inspiration— Never complain, never explain— You don't have to attend every argument you're invited to— Stop making peace your responsibility aloneIf you've ever felt exhausted from trying to explain yourself to people who won't listen, or like your success makes certain people uncomfortable this episode is for you.Leave a voice message to be…

Join The Unbothered Woman.You were taught that selfishness is a bad word for a woman to be.Margarita disagrees and she's about to prove it.In this episode, Margarita breaks down why selfishness is the missing ingredient in your manifestation, your relationships, your boundaries, and your life and why self-sacrifice has been quietly running you dry.05:46 – #1: Selfish women ask for what they want08:04 – #2: Selfish women don't volunteer for self sacrifice10:23 – #3: Selfish women are not afraid to disappoint people12:11 – #4: Selfish women spend money on themselves14:56 – #5: Selfish women protect their energy16:24 – #6: Selfish women have higher standards17:39 – #7: Selfish women understand the irony of lifeIf you've ever felt depleted from doing everything for everyone, resentful in your relationships but unable to say why, or afraid to ask for what you actually want this episode is for you.Leave a voice message to be featured on the next episodeGet your copy of UnbotheredBeing Her is your no-filter space…

Join The Unbothered Woman WaitlistChasing clarity from someone who won't give it to you?That's just begging with extra steps.In this episode, Margarita breaks down the 7 things unbothered women never do — the habits, patterns, and behaviours that keep you stuck, small, and auditioning for a life that should already be yours.02:38 – #1: They never chase clarity (it's just begging)08:16 – #2: They never make men the centre of their lives11:37 – #3: They never audition for love13:18 – #4: They never let anxiety make decisions16:43 – #5: They never confuse being chosen for being valuable18:26 – #6: They never over function21:28 – #7: The unbothered mindset — I want this, not I need thisIf you've ever felt anxious, overlooked, and exhausted in love and life, this episode is going to hit.Because an unbothered woman isn't a woman who cares less. She's a woman who trusts herself more.Leave a voice message to be featured on the next episodeGet your copy of UnbotheredWatch: Mother, Martyr or ManagerBeing Her is your…

Unbothered is no longer just a word. It's a book. It's a movement. It's on morning TV. And honestly? It's blowing my mind.In this episode, Margarita takes you behind the scenes of the Unbothered book launch and answers the questions from her sold-out book signing event — so whether you're in America, Lithuania, or Uganda, you're in the room.We get into what being unbothered actually looks like in real life, how the detachment movement started, the two characters at the heart of the book, why self sacrifice will never get you the love you're looking for, and what it means to truly be seen rather than just advised.Plus the story of recording an audiobook with a newborn, why intimacy will always beat a studio setup, and what is coming next including a US trip that may or may not be happening.This episode is for everyone who wanted a seat at the book signing but couldn't get one. Consider this your invite.Get your copy of UnbotheredLeave a voice message to be featured on the next episodeBeing Her is your…

→ Join The Unbothered Woman WaitlistYour 20s are one of the most psychologically violent decades of your life. You're insecure but pretending you're not. You think every decision is permanent. You think everyone else has it figured out.They don't.In this episode, Margarita shares 10 unhinged truths she genuinely wishes she knew earlier.. the ones that would have saved her years of being extremely bothered. Because nobody sat you down and told you the truth.So here it is.This episode covers the 10 truths nobody told you in your 20s from why your anxiety is lying to you, to why your next glow up has nothing to do with your appearance, and everything to do with your nervous system.Plus Margarita answers your voice messages on how many kids to have, what to do when your partner hasn't worked in years, and how to stay grounded when the people in your life are used to you putting them first.If you've ever felt like everyone else had a manual you never received, stuck in anxiety you mistook for intuition, afraid of…

Have you ever quietly wondered if motherhood means losing yourself?Your identity, ambition, femininity, relationship, peace, dreams.In this deeply honest episode, we're talking about motherhood, mum guilt, burnout, identity loss, feminine energy, ambition, relationships after kids, and how to raise children without completely abandoning yourself in the process.Because somewhere along the way, women were sold the idea that being a "good mother" means self-sacrifice, exhaustion, over-functioning, and quietly disappearing.I disagree.In this episode, I'm sharing my honest thoughts on:- how to be a present mother without losing your identity- mum guilt and why it can quietly run your life- balancing motherhood, business, ambition, and family- feminine energy after children- why burnout is not a badge of honour- over-functioning, resentment, and emotional exhaustion- relationships after children and why standards matter more, not less- asking for help, support systems, and why support is not failure- how to stay…

→ UNBOTHERED 3 Day Masterclass: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/joinlive?podcast=Episode%20165What happens when you stop making men the emotional centre of your life?In this episode, we’re having a very honest conversation about what changes when you stop obsessing over dating, relationships, texting, validation, and what men think and start putting that energy back into your own life.Because the truth is, many women don’t actually have a “man problem” they have a focus problem.We’re talking about:✨ why obsession is not femininity✨ how over-focusing on men creates anxiety, overthinking, and emotional dependence✨ why male validation can quietly become an addiction✨ how to stop making relationships your identity✨ what actually makes a woman magnetic✨ why decentering men doesn’t mean becoming cold, bitter, or anti-love✨ how to become more secure, grounded, and genuinely attractiveIf you constantly find yourself:- overthinking texts- checking his social media- needing reassurance- making dating your main…

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If you’ve ever felt confused, over-invested, or like you’re doing everything in your relationships… this episode is going to clear things up very quickly.In today’s episode, I’m sharing some unhinged truths about men that most women only learn the hard way. Not because you’re doing something wrong, but because no one actually tells you how men think, what they value, and why certain patterns keep repeating.We’re talking about:– why a man’s behaviour matters more than his words– why you feel confused when he’s not serious about you– why over-giving and over-functioning actually backfires– how to stop chasing, overthinking, and losing yourself in relationships– and what actually makes a man value and choose youThese are the kinds of truths that shift how you date, how you show up, and who you choose.→ UNBOTHERED 3 Day Masterclass: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/joinlive?podcast=Episode%20163→ Feminine Energy Bundle: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/feminine-energy-bundle?podcast=Episode%20163 → Pre-Order…

Join The Unbothered 3-Day Intensive: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/joinlive?podcast=Episode%20162If you feel like you're doing everything right but still not moving, this episode is for you.In this episode I walk you through the seven things that are quietly keeping you stuck, and why the women who level up fast aren't doing more than you, they've just stopped doing these specific things without even realising it.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder → Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order → FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her. Every day for 30 days, you'll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbotheredreset → The New Rules Book: https://linktr.ee/thenewrulesbook → HER Journal PDF: https://shop.margaritanazarenko.com/products/pdf-her-journalCourses aren't public anymore, join via…

Join The Unbothered 3-Day Intensive: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/joinlive?podcast=Episode%20161If you were taught that being easy, agreeable, and low maintenance made you more loveable but you're starting to realise it's actually made you invisible — this episode is for you.In this episode I walk you through the ten shifts that take you from the good girl who gets overlooked and taken for granted, to the inconvenient woman who is magnetic, grounded, and impossible to replace.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder→ Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order→ FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her.Every day for 30 days, you’ll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbotheredreset→ The New Rules Book: https://linktr.ee/thenewrulesbook→ HER Journal:…

LAST CHANCE to Join The Unbothered Woman: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/theunbotheredwoman?podcast=Podcast%20Episode%20160If you are tired of showing up in relationships feeling like you are always giving more than you’re getting, always the one who cares more, always the one adjusting, shrinking, and making yourself easier to love, and are finally ready to become the woman who naturally inspires devotion without having to chase, prove, or earn it, this episode is for you.In this episdoe I walk you through the five qualities that make a woman genuinely magnetic to a high quality man, why most men cannot even articulate what it is about her that they cannot stop thinking about, and the specific daily practices for developing each specific quality.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder→ Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order→ FREE: The Unbothered…

Join The Unbothered Woman: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/theunbotheredwoman?podcast=Podcast%20Episode%20159If you are exhausted from second guessing every text before you send it, replaying every conversation after it happens, and never being able to just enjoy what you have because some part of you is always waiting for it to go wrong, this episode is for you.In this episode I walk you through why no matter how hard you try, how much you communicate, or how perfectly you show up, the fear will keep following you until you address what it is actually rooted in, and the four specific steps that will finally free you from this pattern so you can be present, secure, and genuinely at peace in love without constantly bracing for everything to fall apart.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder→ Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order→ FREE: The Unbothered…

Join The Unbothered Woman: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/theunbotheredwoman?podcast=Podcast%20Episode%20158If you know what it feels like to be happy and terrified at the same time, to finally have something good and spend every day waiting for it to be taken away, this episode is for youIn this episode I break down why you can have something genuinely good right in front of you and still feel paralysed by the fear of losing it, why nothing he does or says will ever be enough to make that feeling go away for good, and exactly what needs to shift inside you so that it finally does.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder → Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order → FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her.Every day for 30 days, you’ll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbotheredreset → The New Rules…

Join The Unbothered Woman: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/theunbotheredwoman?podcast=Podcast%20Episode%20157If you are tired of being the girl who always ends up with the man who will not commit, who already knows the red flags and still falls anyway, and who is sick of blaming herself for a pattern she never chose, this episode is for you.In this episode I break down why you keep falling for the same kind of man even when you know better, why the good guy keeps feeling like the wrong guy, why your heart and brain are in a constant war, and what actually has to change so that this stops being your story.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder→ Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order → FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her.Every day for 30 days, you’ll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset:…

Join The Unbothered Woman: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbotheredwoman If you've ever felt like you're pouring everything into a relationship and still not getting the devotion, consistency, or effort you actually deserve, this video is for you.In this video I break down what actually makes a man genuinely obsessed with a woman, why most relationships become imbalanced and how to fix it, the difference between attracting a man through anxiety versus attracting him through self-possession, and what it actually takes to become the woman a high quality man cannot get out of his head.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder → Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order → FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her.Every day for 30 days, you’ll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbotheredreset → The New…

Join The Unbothered Woman: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbotheredwoman If you've ever felt completely powerless to walk away from someone who keeps leaving you feeling empty, confused, and never quite enough no matter how much you give, this video is for you.In this podcast I break down why smart, self-aware women get addicted to emotionally unavailable and inconsistent men, what is actually happening in your nervous system when you can't stop going back, why simply knowing your worth will never be enough to break the cycle, and what identity-level transformation actually looks like and why it's the only thing that breaks this pattern for good.→ Pre-Order my NEW Book: Unbothered: The Art of Letting Go to Find Yourself by Margarita: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/unbothered-book-preorder → Pre-ordered already? Claim your bonus: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/pre-order → FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her.Every day for 30 days, you’ll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset:…

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